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 Are you struggling to get your wife to have sex with you?

A healthy and happy sex life is crucial to a healthy and happy marriage. Often after marriage sex becomes less frequent and needless to say, this doesn’t agree with most men.

Sex can become less frequent for various reasons. After childbirth women can feel tired and unattractive and the last thing they want to do is have sex at the end of a tiring day. Women going menopause can have experience changes in libido and again lose interest in sex. Looking after children, or working all day and then coming home to do house hold duties can result in women not wanting to have sex at the end of the day.

While it is unfair to expect your wife to hop into bed with you whenever you want, there are some things that you can do to improve your chances of a positive response.

* If you go to bed and you haven’t done anything positive or nice for your wife through out the day, then the likelihood is she is going to reject your advances. Women love verbal reinforcement. Tell her that you love her when you wake up in the morning. When get home from work ask her how her day was. Lend a hand around the house. By doing these simple things you have already done the ground work by making her feel special and showing her that you really care.

* It is no secret that women often need more ‘warming up’ than men in the bedroom. You can start this in the kitchen. If you are doing the dishes together then kiss her neck, give her cuddles, start the gentle foreplay in the kitchen.

* If you watch a movie after dinner then put her in your arms, show affection. When you eventually get into the bedroom and you pull out some moves then you are much more likely to get a positive response you have started the day with an “I love you” and you have put the ground work in. This treatment is what every woman wants and it be a part of every day routine. Telling your wife that you love her should not be a chore.

* In the bedroom make sure that sex is about the both of you. What does she really like? Oral sex? Back kisses? If you please her then then she is going to be much more into sex and much more likely to want to do it the next night.

Juggling lots of things at once?

* Do you have kids? If you have kids and night time is really impractical to have sex, then think outside the square. When you get home from work could you put the kids in front of the TV and capitalise on that time to have sex?

* A healthy sex life is crucial to your quality of life, so find out what works for the both of you. If you have to have sex at 5pm instead of 11pm because of the kids then so be it. It won’t be forever and this way you and your wife are still getting intimate time together.

* The little things like helping with the cooking, or bringing her flowers for no reason, these little things really count for a woman and they will go a long way in helping you out in the bedroom.